Ever since
the beginning of time, women have been seen as weak, vulnerable individuals. Because of the seemingly feeble and overly emotional
nature of females, society has made it extremely difficult for women to develop
leadership roles and achieve honorable feats. While strength, power, and
potency are vital characteristics of a leader, one must also be able to express
compassion and love in order to gain a following of supporters. In order to
become a successful leader, individuals must find a happy medium between being
composed, hardened, and tough, traits stereotypically applied to men, and
expressing heartfelt, caring emotions, characteristics usually attributed to
females. All humans must face obstacles when striving for power. However, women
who desire leadership find themselves in an especially difficult situation. If
power-seeking women openly disclose their emotions to society, the public may
view that individual as weak and not fit for leading a group in need of
grounded guidance. On the other hand, if women striving for leadership act as a
strong, emotionally neutral individual and take on the part of a male leader,
the public might view her as not genuine. Women seeking respect and power must
channel both their inner strength and emotional side in order to be a
well-rounded leader.
The
epitome of women’s struggle for power is shown through the life of Hillary
Clinton, a well-known politician. In the past, critics of Clinton have
ridiculed her support for the war in Iraq, arguing that because she is a woman,
Clinton feels the need to prove her masculinity by advocating aggression. On
the other hand, Clinton has also been criticized for her expression of “feminine”
emotion. For instance, when speaking about her political career and her fight
for the status of presidency, Clinton started to tear up, causing a mixture of
passionate responses. Many Clinton adherents defended the politician and
admired her ability to show true passion openly to the world. However, many
individuals used this opportunity to attack Clinton’s expression of inner
emotions, claiming her tears made her appear weak, vulnerable, and incapable of
being an effective leader. In reality, the tears that escaped Hillary Clinton’s
eyes were not really the cause of such an uproar. Instead, the fact that
Clinton is a woman who shed tears is the true source of the controversial
reactions. If a male became emotional because of his intense passion for
leading and helping people, there may be a few jokes about the incident, but
nothing detrimental to his career. In contrast, because society already views
women as being incapable of shielding their emotions and remaining collected
under pressure, one slip of heartfelt feelings can cause the public to question
her leadership. However, while being grounded and strong for one’s people is
vital, a leader must also be able to relate to the public. Because we are
humans, all people harbor compassionate, sentimental, feminine-like feelings,
regardless of if they express them or not. Individuals are not being weak or
soft when they show true emotion and step out from behind the walls that humans so often hide behind. But rather, an individual, especially a woman striving
for power, expresses true courage when he or she is willing to openly display
his or her emotions to the public eye.
Thoughtful and articulate response to the prompt. I agree with you that, though we tend to preference dispassionate and rational character traits in leaders, an effective leader also has to appeal to the emotions of their followers. I also think you did a great job of laying out the unique double standard that women in power face: there are sometimes simply no good choices-- only bad and worse ones. Good job.
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